HOW TO UPGRADE YOURSELF?

By reading the title you know what i am going to talk about upgrading yourself or in simple term self development we can say. But self development might sounds boring for us because we are hearing this world from 6th or 7th standards in our schools, Coachings etc. So self upgrading means changing yourself by taking factors of your Past. I know many people have past than their current experience like having a tension free life , no burdens , no stress life was easy in past, I know this thing because i had also experienced this thing 1 year before, But we can't stay talking about the past instead of that start working for your present problems because past is just a experience not more than that. Many of us suffered from most unique & toughest phases of life & many are still suffering. In our group of generation this problem which is called Adolscene we typically experience Loneliness , sufferings etc. But this the only age where we can upgrade ourself according to us. Many people think that time is not good, it's just a time it will pass away but this is one of the rumour in our generation. If you want things become all good then you have to work for your self upgradation. we have to start pushing efforts in changing our life totally. so here are some main things which we have to definately change in our current life.

1. STOP THINKING ABOUT BEST PAST EXPERIENCES- First thing for upgrading yourself starts with stop thinking about  bad past experiences such us breakups, toxic relationships etc these things acts as growth barrier in one's life. They keep interupting  in some or other ways, Treat them just as like several phases of life. After avoiding your bad past experiences you work & implement on your future destinies.

2. LEARN SOMETHING NEW DAILY -  One of the best things to grow your thinking ability, Make a habbit of learn something new daily, i am not telling you to learn your textbooks, Just learn from the internet ,  Youtube  etc according to your Intrests fields. 

3. START BEING PRACTICAL - This point is for those people who just thoughts about things & it will always be a thought. I you have a single thing in your mind that you want it as future goal, just leave future i take a present example i had to learn to solve cubes from 9th standard. but one day, by the way that one day came after four years , So one day i was very fascinated to learn to solve the cube, suddenly i bought cube & start learning & within one week i completely to solve the Cube. so things will according to us & much better than our expectations, we just have to start working & putting efforts in our work.

4. MEETING NEW PEOPLES & HAVING COVERSATIONS : By meeting new people we got to know various personalities & various thinkings & mentality of the people. One or other way is effective for our self & we start having mentality of self improvement. And by Conversations with several people clearly reflects us ideas . we get to know about the various talking styles , thoughts , sense of Humour, talking way & plus got to know that a person is creative or not

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5. DISCUSS IDEAS INSTEAD OF PERSON IN DISCUSSIONS - We have gossips in our friend circles daily. but the common thing is we discuss about the specific person in our gossips majorly, but discussing ideas enhances your creativity , moderatorship quality, mind growth , Clearance of future visions etc.

These are also some Points which play great role in SELF UPGRADATION 

* Having better surroundings.

* Take past mistakes to improve future.

* Be supportive to others.

* Having a Friendly Behaviour to others.

* Don't let overthinking overcome on your good mentality.

* Love Yourself in any condition & Appreciate Youself.

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